Dating 2 guys friends
Nothing has happened between me and him, mainly because he has a girlfriend. I don't know what to do, should I just forget the both of them? The second man is in a relationship, and you’ve known the first for a long while but neither of you have been able to take things further. Why do you think it might be you (or they) haven’t moved things any further in the time you’ve known each other?
I am sick of being torn between these two, is it time I move on, and how do I do this? Can you list for yourself what it is about both of these men you find attractive? You may want to write down how you feel about them and relationships generally in a diary or letters to yourself.
Guy #2 actually handled it pretty well and has agreed to let me tell Guy#2 myself - which I'm doing tomorrow because we already have plans to see each other.
Guy #2 has said that "we'll figure this out, Guy #2 and I are going to be fine, you did nothing wrong" He's saying all the right stuff but he's not professing his love to me or anything and out of respect for his friend, we have not talked since the other night but he told me to let him know after I've told Guy #2. What can I say to Guy #2 tomorrow, to let him know that I'd rather be with him, without it getting back to his friend and without even knowing if I have the choice because he may tell me he's not interested anyway?
At the end of the night, I realized that both guys knew each other (not besties but more like very good acquaintances). At one point during the date I asked him how he and the other guy knew each other, and he said they're friends who see each other about once every 2 months.
The fact that theyre friends shouldnt be a big deal, but you really cant drag this out anymore at all.
You have to make a decision, and understand that youre going to be stuck with it.
We're all looking for love: the big kind, the one that will change the world as we know it. The two of them are so different, but both have qualities that spark your interest.
We spend so much of our time waiting, searching, and going through the motions of dating until we find what we're looking for. One of them may have the best sense of humor; the other may be incredibly witty and smart.
He resurfaced in December (before I met Guy #2) and finally asked me out after I had been seeing Guy #2 for about 2 weeks. I have been seeing both of them but only slept with Guy #1 and really only had about 4 dates with Guy #2.